That "boys will be boys" so they can get away with anything. Ohhh noooooo. Not in my house! What we need to say is, "A man needs to be a man." I don't play with boys.
Too many times we let guys get away with things because we love them or want to save our relationships when really we're only hurting ourselves. Cheating, sexting, physical abuse, mental abuse: we go through all of these things an some of us think it's normal or consider it to not be serious. Ladies, it is serious because you deserve better. You should be your man's queen and nothing less. That is what we are: Queens and no queen should be treated as a peasant. Am I right?
Alot of the times we let guys treat us as dirt because we're afraid of being alone. We have to be stronger than that. There is nothing wrong with being alone. You don't have to go searching for the next guy either. HE will find YOU. I'm not saying that the next creep that approaches you with gold teeth and a pair of raggedy shoes is your dream guy but just don't go searching for anyone just to keep you warm at night, that's all.
If your man is doing something you don't approve of, don't let him make you feel "crazy", don't let him say you're "overreacting." What's wrong is wrong, and you need to stand your ground.
Have a good day my queens!
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