The Importance of Space

Todays Lesson: Girl, back up!
   
     Have you ever noticed how annoying your best friend can be after hanging out with her for a bit too long? How you and your long-time boyfriend fight over the dumbest things just because? Or how everyone thinks your sister is hilarious when really you're completely tired of her same old jokes? Well...its all because of SPACE! We need it! Things get old and people get annoying.
     Let's talk boys (what we do best), when you're talking to a guy or in a relationship with a guy things can get OLD and things can get old quickly! Things need to be spiced up from time to time and you both have to have your own things to do! One of you can't be making all of their dreams come true while the other just tags along or watches from the sidelines.
     Ladies, I know we like to be around our lovers all day and night but sometimes it's all that time that makes our relationship completely DRY. I know some of you may be thinking, "Well girl I needa watch my man and make sure he ain't doin' nothin' crazy!" Well missy A) You have trust issues or B) You don't need to be with someone who can't be trusted! We can't be afraid to spend time away from each other and spend some time with our girls or at home doing our own thing. And yes! Let him hang with his boys and do what boys do! If you're afraid of what he might be doing when you're not around, that's just not healthy.
     Everyone knows the saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Let me tell you, it is completely true. How anxious and excited do you feel when your guy just came back home from a trip? Or after just a few days of not seeing him? How great is it to be wrapped up in his arms again? You can't ever appreciate his smell or his touch when your constantly up his butt! ALSO, if he loves you, the time away from you will only make him appreciate you more and it will be easier for the both of you to appreciate the moments you spend. So! Our next mission (if necessary): Make him miss you! Moments and quality time are more special when your life together is not a routine. Take a day away from each other! Have a girls day, catch up with your old elementary friend, spend the day in bed reading your favorite book or my blog ;) ...whatever your heart desires! Just allow yourself to breathe and your man too!

That is all. :)