Are you a victim of the booty caller? The guy(s) who calls you after hours, not to talk about how your day was or how your mom's doing, but to ask when is the next time you can come over to his house.
Okay, let's stop right here. Guys that make you go out of your way to come see them only consider you to be a friend or the dreaded: booty call. A guy that is complelty interested will always make the effort to spend time with you and come see you. DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. Let me make you an OBVIOUS and IN-YOUR-FACE list of signs that you are simply a booty call because I know we girls can be completely blind to the truth sometimes, its okay.
1) He won't give you the time of day in public but will call or text you when he is home.
- Man oh man, I've seen this too many times. There is something wrong with him having so much to say when he gets home and having nothing to say when he sees you. If he really cared for you he would be more than excited to see you and would have plenty to say and ask.
2) He always has multiple girls around him or texting him.
-You're not being jealous if he always has girls texting him, you're being observant! If he's with you and if he likes you, those girls can be put on hold. If you always see him with girls in school or around it means one of two things: A) He's gay or B) You're one of many of his victims.
3) His Facebook wall is covered in smiley faces and flirty comments from "just friends."
-Guys will be quick to come up with some lie and a full blown story just to make you feel good, don't fall into the trap, please! If you are reading with YOUR OWN eyes a bunch of flirty posts on his wall, something needs to be figured out. That's it. Girls don't just post on guy's wall for no reason. Unless you're dating David Beckham or Justin Bieber, girls will not go as far as to write on their wall for no reason.
4) He has never called you beautiful but will call you sexy.
-This is something not all girls really pay attention to! Just because they give you some cute pet name or give you a compliment, really pay attention to what exactly he is complimenting you ON. Beautiful and Sexy are two different things. There's nothing wrong with being sexy but if that is all the guy can come up with...they're not worried about you, they're worried about what you're packin'.
5) He never asks personal questions, only sexual ones.
-Does he ever ask about your family? Does he know where you were born? Is the first thing he ever brings up is what he wants to do to you? Yeah girl, he is NOT the guy. Throw up your hand and you know what to do, throw up the dueces!
6) He has never mentioned a future or any further relationship.
-If you guys are just starting to talk, don't expect him to plan your marriage and what color suit he is going to wear. All I am saying is if months are going by and you two have never even DISCUSSED it, then you really need to take a second look at what you guys are doing.
Any of these things sound familiar? Going through it right now? Well girl, get out of it! You're wasting time and effort on someone who is only trying to get the cookies.
Take care & DON'T be a booty call.
xoxo
1) He won't give you the time of day in public but will call or text you when he is home.
- Man oh man, I've seen this too many times. There is something wrong with him having so much to say when he gets home and having nothing to say when he sees you. If he really cared for you he would be more than excited to see you and would have plenty to say and ask.
2) He always has multiple girls around him or texting him.
-You're not being jealous if he always has girls texting him, you're being observant! If he's with you and if he likes you, those girls can be put on hold. If you always see him with girls in school or around it means one of two things: A) He's gay or B) You're one of many of his victims.
3) His Facebook wall is covered in smiley faces and flirty comments from "just friends."
-Guys will be quick to come up with some lie and a full blown story just to make you feel good, don't fall into the trap, please! If you are reading with YOUR OWN eyes a bunch of flirty posts on his wall, something needs to be figured out. That's it. Girls don't just post on guy's wall for no reason. Unless you're dating David Beckham or Justin Bieber, girls will not go as far as to write on their wall for no reason.
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-This is something not all girls really pay attention to! Just because they give you some cute pet name or give you a compliment, really pay attention to what exactly he is complimenting you ON. Beautiful and Sexy are two different things. There's nothing wrong with being sexy but if that is all the guy can come up with...they're not worried about you, they're worried about what you're packin'.
5) He never asks personal questions, only sexual ones.
-Does he ever ask about your family? Does he know where you were born? Is the first thing he ever brings up is what he wants to do to you? Yeah girl, he is NOT the guy. Throw up your hand and you know what to do, throw up the dueces!
6) He has never mentioned a future or any further relationship.
-If you guys are just starting to talk, don't expect him to plan your marriage and what color suit he is going to wear. All I am saying is if months are going by and you two have never even DISCUSSED it, then you really need to take a second look at what you guys are doing.
Any of these things sound familiar? Going through it right now? Well girl, get out of it! You're wasting time and effort on someone who is only trying to get the cookies.
Take care & DON'T be a booty call.
xoxo
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