Is He Worth It?

Today's Lesson: They just aren't worth it.

     Ladies, why do we keep letting them break our hearts? When I say "them" I think we know who I'm talking about... boys of course! I say boys because its boys who break girl's hearts, not men. Real men know how to respect a girl and can appreciate a real lady when they have one. I was inspired to create this blog when I realized how many women in my life were wasting their time on these BOYS.

     Why do we let them drive us so crazy? Is it their looks? Their manly attitudes? Their voice? Nope! A lot of the times it has nothing to do with these things. What I have been seeing is ladies who are insecure or simply just do not know any better. When you have not experienced love before, you often don't recognize it when you have it or you mistake certain situations for love. Love should not be hard or complicated. (I mean unless you're Romeo and Juliet...but I think we can all agree that they were just stupid.) You should not have to fight for your "lover" to love you or have to fight for his attention or affection. You know what that shows me? He needs to be DROPPED. Like immediately.

      Us girls often think that the toying around with our emotions are all a part of the game, but really it should only go to a certain extent. If you have been talking for more than a few months...something needs to be established and understood. We CANNOT be afraid to speak up and ask the guy, "What are we doing?" Cause guess what? When your mom told you there are more fish in the sea, she was right. There are! There's actually millions more fish in the sea and your clock is tickin' girl! (Not at ALL saying that you NEED to have a man, oh noooo! Let's remember, guys are an accessory, not a necessity.) If  this guy is making you more stressed than happy...he's just not worth it. If he's got other girls in the picture...don't you DARE try to fight over him, he's just not worth it. If he breaks up with you, there's a reason, he's giving you a free ticket to freedom, take it and GO because hes just not worth it. 

     Girls its time for us to recognize that it may be time for you to make the move, throw up the deuces, and LEAVE HIM. I'm not saying every relationship is going to be like the romances in movies, but it sure can't be like Ronnie and Sami from Jersey Shore. If you're stuck in a crazy or complicated situation with a guy, or even if you're just obsessing over a guy who won't ever notice you...say it with me...HE'S JUST NOT WORTH IT.

No stress, no tears, just love. All love!